Paralyzed society

I have learned from a lifecoaching eBook that u have to ask yourself ' how has the client created his existing reality. And if he wants to change he has to get out of the situation, out of the comfort zone. I am often outside my house for a walk or to enjoy sitting in the fresh air of nature. I notice that most people stay inside their houses. I think thus that they do this because it is their comfort zone. They are in houses or in cars or at work. Thing is that i can never get in touch with this existing society. It  looks paralyzed in case of interaction with people other than their family. I see this as a missing out. As a lack of joy. Happily enough i still enjoy the animals who are there outside always.