How we react different by difference in vision

 I read about the reason of our behaviour and how this comes to production.

I give you the example.

Man A starts scolding at Man B

Man B thinks ' this man A is not feeling relaxed he might have some issues he has to deal with, thats why he's scolding. 

Man B his emotion is that he feels pitty for Man A and he decide not to respond hoping that Man A will get some rest to continue his struggle

Second sequence 

Man A start scolding at Man B

Man B thinks this is not appropriate, he shouldn' t start scolding at ppl

Man B feels angry ( emotion) and decides to yell back at Man A to let him know that he finds it unrespectful and not normal.

So you see Man A scolded and Man B have to different thoughts, emotions and behaviour because of it.